Dating first base second third base
Get curious about how long you can spend feeling each other up, and notice what new sensations come up in your body as you slow into the contact.
i feel really stupid for not knowing and i know it varies for everyone, but sometime i hear people saying "oh yeah, we got to third base last night blah blah blah" and i have no goddamn idea what they mean. i feel really stupid for not knowing and i know it varies for everyone, but sometime i hear people saying "oh yeah, we got to third base last night blah blah blah" and i have no goddamn idea what they mean. I prefer the English one because it makes much more sense.
It’s also a great place to figure out the unique pace and connection between you and this lover. Can they hear your needs without getting defensive? If you aren’t comfortable communicating your needs here, you might want to slow down before going further. Pull his hips to you and find the softest parts of him. From grabbing your lover’s hair tight with the promise of future topping, to stroking your lover’s jaw, tracing your fingers up their back, all the way down to a foot rub, this is your time to get to know the erotic landscape of your lover.
First of all: Feeling someone up and getting felt up are art forms!I am offering up the following areas of focus as a sort of corrective ‘feeling people up’ map.Quickies have a separate name for a reason: They’re supposed to be a activity, where you and your lover do sex things really quickly because of time or capacity constraints.For me it’s a crucial part of third base that sometimes covers the ‘needs’ of fourth.But I invite you to place it on your…field…wherever feels right for you.) I want to spend some time on each of these bases.