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Sciortino commented, “Essentially, we are far more discriminating in our 30s than we were in our 20s, which is both a blessing and a curse.We know more about what we want and what we won’t tolerate—but to a point where almost no one is good enough…Jon Birger brought the issue forward in the TIME Magazine feature in August 2015 entitled “Mormons and Jews “What 2 Religions Say About the Modern Dating Crisis” identified the Shidduch Crisis.The crisis is based on demographics, there are more young women of marriageable age, which is 18-19-years-old and up in the community’s standards than young men, who usually start getting married after they complete Yeshiva at 22-23-years-old.Married couples and those with babies and children usually hang out with those in similar situations because they have more in common and often view single people as a threat.That philosophy crosses over into the workplaces as well, where employers promote married people, especially with children because they deem them more trustworthy and stable.The problems with dating are even more glaring in one’s thirties.The “stakes are higher” and one is even more choosy, there is no just no use in dating someone where there is no future.
Considering the problems with intermarriage especially among the millennial generation and the recent matchmaking, Shidduch Crisis, one would think more has been written about the subject to help navigate through the unique problems marriage minded Jews face.
He did not believe the obvious, I do not want to put on a stage production complete with set, lights, make and wardrobe for someone I just talked to once, you want to see me meet me, in person.
The men might think the women are the crazies but what about them; they should look in the mirror?
What happens to those in their thirties, who are increasingly isolated by the community without being married and raising a family?
Answer be forced to take anybody or you are a lost cause.